Why did this get me sad????
Last night I got a call from my husband. We were talking about his day and he mention tha the had to meet is wife somewhere. When he said HIS WIFE my heart fell and I became so sad. I have not been able to shake that feeling ever since. I WONDER WHY!!!! I mean I know he is married and I know he has a wife. I think maybe hearing the words out of him mouth may have done it. I dont really know. All I know is not I feel so depressed and sad.
posted by Livin_life_and loving_it @ 5:38 AM
4 Comments:
At 2:11 PM,
Safa said…
You know, I always refer to MM as "your wife" when talking to hubby.
How is your wife?
Would your wife be upset if I sent her something?
You have to be fair to your wife.
But I've never called her by her name. I can't. Hubby rarely talks about her or even refers to her nowadays. BUT OMG....if I bring her up, he's so DAMN defensive!!!
In Eid she called on his cell phone, and he wasnt in the room, I answered the phone to tell her Happy Eid, and she heard my voice and hung up. I was upset. I cried. And when hubby found me he only said...You dont know what she's going thru. ??????
So let the saying of "wife" go......it's a reality and don't let it get under ur skin.......is there something else you'd like him to refer to her as? Believe me, let it go.
At 4:31 PM,
Livin_life_and loving_it said…
I think I would rather hear her name. I mean then she is just a person....not THE WIFE. I thought about this all day at work and that is it. If she is just Mejdah she is just that, a woman. but with him it is THE WIFE......
At 8:21 PM,
Safa said…
then how about a compromise...and let hubby refer to you as....MY LOVE!!!!
You've gotten over the big things to let a little issue like this stump you.....
At 2:03 AM,
Anonymous said…
salam. Its only natural and is part of our nature to feel this way about another woman involved with our spouse.
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